I am, being an ENFJ, am more concerned about what others would think about usme. ENFJs are interested in external human appearance. We judge by the external human situation, and are motivated by other's' talents, needs, and their care. We have the ability to mold our feelings with another person's feelings. I want to be dominant in a group I am in. ENFJs have a dominant extroverted feeling, overvaluing the people just by their appearance. This is very true in my case. I easily judge the personple, and I behave depending on my evaluation. This comes out to be mostly true, and sometimes it goes wrong. When my perception about a person goes wrong, it's hard for me to take it and still I maintain a space with them. I consider this attitude asto be my weakness, and want to change this for my personal development. Because of my ENFJs personality, people say that I am so sensitive to feedback, both positive and negative. I am very genuine and perfect. The problem comes when I expect others to be same in their intention.
Due to my extroverted feeling character to being dominant in all the functions, I am bound to what I feel and think. This kind of attitude drives people away from me. From others' viewpoint, I am seemed to be adamant and stubborn. I feel uinsecured (even though I like to be with people) and concerned faborut my performance and appearance. People can easily upset me, and I am easily affected by negative opinions.